Communication is the key to every successful relationship, especially where bondage and S&M play are concerned. Partners should make their desires, fears and limits known to each other. While people who are highly experienced at role playing with each other may need very little or no negotiation before playing, people who are just getting to know each other typically need to discuss and negotiate beforehand.
Couples must agree upon a safeword when beginning their bondage play experience together. A safeword is a word that is out of context with the fantasy bondage scene and means "STOP" Typically, one safeword is used to end the bondage playing, while another is used to tone things down in the bondage fantasy.
Many couples find arousal in exploring sexual role play. Whether they choose to create fantasies involving dominance and submission, incorporate restraints and toys, or both, couples need to decide what toys will help fulfill their desires.
Beginners
SportsCuffs are an essential for beginner couples experimenting with bondage play or fantasy role play for the first time. A softer product, Love Cuffs are much safer than metal handcuffs. Or, you can try the Beginner’s Bondage Kit to sample different toys when learning the ropes of bondage and fantasy role play. Another suggestion for beginners is a Leather Blindfold and a Feather Tickler. This is great way to begin your path of sensory deprivation and stimulation.Adventure Seeking
Adventure-seeking couples are familiar with restraints and are always looking for new products to peak their interest. More commonly, adventure-seeking couples are concerned with quality and required the very best in bondage and role playing products. Unlike beginner couples, they are ready for the next step, looking for new sensation and require more risqué toys to give them pleasure. The Under the Bed Restraint System is perfect for the busy couple, who understands the importance of squeezing in fantasy play time. It sets up quickly and can be stashed under the bed, out of sight, until it’s needed again.Experienced Players
Experienced players are willing to invest in their gear. They are very concerned with quality, versatility, and the aesthetics of their gear. These players typically prefer leather items . For these players, BSDM is not just a past time, it's a lifestyle.Sportsheets offer a range of products for foreplay, strap-on harness adventure and products designed to enhance sexual pleasure in a variety of positions. They manufacture products designed with one purpose in mind: amazing sex.
Sportsheets products are as strong and well-made as leather, and even more versatile and comfortable. We recommend the SuperCuffs for advanced players. The double Velcro closure and welded D-rings, make these the strongest and most comfortable restraint cuffs on the market. Sportsheets Leather Paddles come in a variety of styles and feature unique applications.
The Sportsheets Bondage Bedsheet is versatile enough for couples at all levels of play. Originally designed for adventurous couples with safety in mind, the Bedsheet allows you to only be as tied up as you want to be. You can place the included Velcro pads anywhere on the Velcro compatible sheet and secure your partner in place you're your comfortable SportsCuffs. You can easily move the pads to new positions.
More advanced players can add Tethers, Thigh Cuffs, and Leather Paddles to the Sportsheets Set for more intense action and role playing. Using the Tethers with the Sportsheets' Bedsheet allows couples to increase the level of restraint security, making it more difficult, if not impossible, to escape.
