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If you’re new to sex toys, the vast amount of products out there can be a little daunting. But never fear - you’ve come to the right place. It’s hard to know where to start, but with our recommendations you can find the right sex toy for you. When starting out, keep it small and simple. You’ll avoid intimidation, that way and can explore what you do and don't like. Whether you are looking for your first vibrator, getting curious about anal play or want to spice things up with your partner, we got the toys for you!
You don’t need to know what everything does or what the “best toy” is (especially since that is entirely subjective) to pick the right toy for you or your partner. All you need is an open mind and a general idea of what you’re aiming to achieve. Do you want to give your partner their first orgasm? Or achieve simultaneous orgasm together during sex? Looking to find the G-spot but you don’t know what the first step is? Or maybe you’d just like to spice things up and try something a little different? There is a toy out there (or two or three) that is designed to do exactly what you’re looking for…you just have to find it. Also if you ever have any questions about these products just join us on the chat as we are happy to help and are here to guide you!
THEY'LL LEAVE YOU BUZZING
These days, purchasing your first vibrator can feel overwhelming and complicated. It is easy to browse through the different types and read various reviews to get an idea of what exact toy you may like. However, because there are literally hundreds of thousands of toys to choose from, this also makes narrowing down a good sex toy much harder. Don't worry, we're going to break it down for you!
Whoever said diamonds are a girl’s best friend clearly never had a vibrator!
These versatile little gizmos are a super easy way to introduce a sex toy into the bedroom without requiring a ton of skill or know-how. A simple bullet vibrator is a great introductory toy (and often remains as a staple in the bedroom). Its small size and basic function make it simple to include in foreplay or during sex and it’s also a fantastic masturbation toy for women. Bullet vibes are held gently against the clitoris, and varying speeds and patterns of vibration are often available on most models. Just press the ‘On’ button and hold on tight!
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WE'LL BREAK IT DOWN FOR YOU!
So you and your partner have both decided to introduce a sex toy into your relationship, realizing how much added enjoyment it can bring to your sexual experience. The question now is "where do we start?". No problem! We are here to guide you. Firstly the most important aspect in couples play is having completely open and honest communication. Have a think about what you might like to experiment with and what you think your partner would be keen to try. Would your partner like you to take the lead and initiate playing with sex toys (so there is an element of surprise)? Do you think playing with a vibrator together would be fun? These are some of the things you need to talk about. This will ensure you both get what you want and need.
Couples can connect on multiple levels with a number of different toys to enhance you’re sex lives. Introducing toys into the bedroom as a couple can be extremely exciting and add a little extra spark, helping you to explore new sexual experiences together. For example, a popular option for heterosexual couples to start with would be a small “c” shaped toys that hug the G-spot from within while massaging the clitoris externally. It simultaneously adds extra vibration and stimulation to the penis during penetration to create the ultimate orgasm and sensation.
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SOMETIMES THE UNKNOWN
IS AMAZING
Sometimes the unknown can be Amazing!! That's what a lot of lovers are discovering about the joys of anal sex toys, either as part of foreplay or during sex. If you and/or your partner are new to anal toys, you may be a little confused about exactly where to start. You've come to the right place! Anal sex toys fall into three main categories: Anal Beads, Butt Plugs, and Prostate Massagers/ Vibrators.
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EVER INTRIGUING WORLD
OF SEXUAL FANTASY
To most people, the very thought of a bondage and fetish, let's face it, can be very intimidating. However there are a great number of people, that are far more interested in exploring this risque bedroom play than would first appear. This section is going to help easily guide you into the world of kink. The recent surge in mainstream popularity of erotic literature such as Fifty Shades of Grey might just be beginning of the new trending obsession with bondage and fetish. It can be tricky to know where to start with endless options available. Whether alone or with a partner we have everything you need to dip your toes into this ever intriguing world of sexual fantasy.
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THAT HITS THE SPOT!
Internal and G-spot vibrators are designed to be inserted into the vagina and range from about 4 inches in length to about 12 inches. The size you choose is entirely up to you, and is based solely on personal preference. If the toy has a curve at the end, it is designed to access the G-spot easier than a standard straight vibe. Either way, make sure to lubricate these toys so they glide easily. If you’re not sure which lubricant is best for you, a simple water-based formula is a good bet. Turn the toy on and insert the toy to where it is most comfortable. Play around with angles, speed and varying pressure until you find what works for you.
Want to hit both the clitoris and G-spot at the same time? Then you’re looking for a “rabbit” or dual vibrator. These toys have a shaft and a small clitoral bullet attached at the base. This design allows you to contact both the internal nerves and G-spot and the clitoris at the same time. Given the size of these toys, they are more commonly used a masturbation or foreplay tool for women as they would generally be “in the way” during sex.
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PUT A RING ON IT
Another option if you’re interested in something that can be used to stimulate the clitoris and g-spot simultaneously (but want to be able to use it during sex and not just for foreplay) is a vibrating cockring. Cockrings are typically made of a stretchy material and shaped like a small circular ring. They are stretched over the shaft of the penis straight down to the base where they rest against the pubic bone. A small clitoral bullet is attached on one side on the vibrating model so that when the penis enters the vagina, the bullet will press against the clitoris and provide great hands-free stimulation for both partners!
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Regardless of what kind of toy you decide to try, there are Four Golden Rules to keep in mind!
- First, always, always, ALWAYS, wash your toy with a good toy cleaner or non-irritating, unscented mild soap before and after every use. This hygienic practice will keep the toy clean and safe for use and also maintain it so you can love it for as long as possible
- Second, never be afraid to lubricate a toy. We always say “wetter is better!” Any water-based formula will improve the toy’s function and prevent any chafing or pulling if things get hot and heavy!
- Third, if the toy takes batteries, do NOT leave the batteries in the toy when it’s not in use. Not only does this drain the batteries’ power (even when the toy isn’t on), but it can also cause the toy’s motor to overheat or burn out. Leave the batteries aside when storing your toys and pop them back in when you’re ready for fun.
- Last, always store your toys separately (meaning don’t let them touch). Many toy materials include silicone in them, and given its inert nature, silicone bonds to itself. This means if you store two silicone-containing toys on top of each other for a length of time, they will effectively ‘melt.’ Put each toy into a lint-free pouch to prevent any issues, and also to help keep them clean in storage.
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