Sex Toy Noise Levels: A Deep Dive Into Decibels & How To Find The Quietest Sex Toys![]()
We get asked regularly about the noise levels of sex toys, and truth be told, there are several factors to consider when comparing them. We’re taking a deep dive into decibels (dB) to help you decide if a toy meets your noise level requirements.
Factors that affect noise levels:
- Motor strength, type, and count
- Moving parts (thrusting, rotating, suction, air pulse, etc.)
- Outer material of toy (silicone dampens, plastic can amplify)
- Internal vs external use (sound of internal toys are dampened by the body)
Typical decibel levels of sex toys:
- The average vibrator ranges from 30-50 dB
- Powerful vibrator (like wands) range from 50-70 dB
- Toys with moving parts (thrusting, rotating, etc.) range from 60-80 dB
How can I compare decibels levels?
Here are some common household items decibel levels to give you an approximate idea of what a similar level toy might sound like:
| Decibel Level | Comparable Everyday Sound |
|---|---|
| 20-30 dB | Rustling leaves, a whisper from several feet away |
| 30-40 dB | Quiet library, refrigerator humming |
| 40-50 dB | Light rainfall, a desktop computer fan, quiet conversation nearby |
| 50-60 dB | Running tap, electric toothbrush, normal conversation |
| 60-70 dB | Hair dryer on low, shower running, vacuum in another room |
| 70-80 dB | Vacuum cleaner nearby, blender from another room, busy traffic outside |
Tips for keeping it stealthy:
- Place a folded towel, blanket, or pillow underneath the toy to absorb vibration
- Cover yourself and the toy with a thick blanket if possible
- Choose silicone toys instead of other materials when possible, as the silicone naturally absorbs vibration
- Internal vibrators are significantly quieter, as the body dampens the noise
- Play music or turn on a television to divert the sound
Final thoughts to consider:
A higher decibel level doesn't necessarily tell the whole story. A toy with a deeper, low frequency can seem quieter than one with a higher pitched "buzzy" one. We recommend choosing toys from reputable brands that use quality motors and materials if noise levels are an issue. It's also worth remembering that how and where a toy is used can make a noticeable difference in sound levels. Internal toys are naturally dampened by the body, while placing a toy against a hard surface can amplify vibrations and make it seem louder than it actually is. Avoid placing toys on surfaces like the floor and opt for using them on a bed or couch. Finally, keep in mind that decibel ratings are approximate and can vary depending on the testing environment, motor speed, and individual product design.
When in doubt, a toy with no motor is guaranteed to be quiet.
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