Position Aids

If you're dealing with mobility issues or chronic pain, position aids can be extremely helpful and offer support during partnered sex. Place them under the hips, lower back or even under sore knees to relieve pressure or add stability. They come in all shapes and sizes and can even be inflatable, like the Sportsheets Pivot, so you can hide them away discreetly. The added bonus is that they angle your body perfectly for added pleasure, so it's a serious win-win! 

 Arousal Serums & Lubricants

Vaginal dryness and lower libido are an unfortunate side effect of perimenopause and menopause. Wicked Sensual Care's Simply Timeless collection and Intimate Earth's Moonbloom line are specifically formulated with natural ingredients that can alleviate issues from hormonal changes and bring joy back into your intimate moments. Whether you're looking for relief from vaginal dryness or need a little extra boost with arousal, these products are designed with you in mind. 

Senior Friendly Vibrators

When shopping for vibrators, a few considerations should be made if you're dealing with mobility issues, arthritis, pain, or even some vision loss. Here's a list of basic questions you ask yourself while shopping to help pinpoint the best toy options for you:

• Is it easy to grip? -> Look for something with an ergonomic handle or something wearable
• Is the interface simple and easy to use? -> Simple on / off buttons are easiest to navigate
• Would I rather recharge it, replace batteries, or plug it in? -> Shop rechargeable, battery operated, or plug-in vibrators to narrow down your search
• Is the material body safe and easy to clean? -> Look for "silicone" as the material listed
• Do I want to use it in the bath or shower? -> Check to make sure that the toy is listed as "Waterproof IPX7"

If you're dealing with arthritis or joint pain, Finger Vibrators might be an option to consider. You can slip them on and rest them on any external erogenous zone and won't have to worry about losing grip. We love Cal Exotics' Cashmere Finger Vibrator or Evolved's Fingerific. 

If versatility and easy use are your main concerns, a Wand Vibrator might be the perfect choice. There's a huge range of options in terms of size, power source, and style, so you'll have lots to choose from. One of our best-selling wand brands is Vibratex's Magic Wands. They come in a few sizes and you choose ones that either recharge or can be plugged in to any outlet. If mobility is an issue, you may want to opt for a rechargeable unit, so you can find the best place to use it without limiting yourself to a spot near an outlet though. Bonus: wands can do wonders for sore muscles, aches and pains, not just pleasure!

If you're looking for an internal vibrator, we recommend flexible, silicone G-Spot or Rabbit (dual) vibrators. Slim models like Selopa's Lemon Squeeze are great if you're experiencing vaginal dryness and don't want to insert anything too large that may cause discomfort (of course, use lots of lube!) We also love combo vibrators like Nu Sensuelle's Alluvion Wand that can be used as a wand OR as a G-Spot Vibrator. 

Senior Friendly Strokers & Penis Pumps

If you're looking for a penis pump to help achieve or maintain an erection, you can choose from either a manual pump or an automatic pump. Manual pumps are great if you don't want to worry about recharging or replacing batteries. If you have arthritis or joint pain, you may want to reconsider a manual pump and opt for an automatic one. Penis pumps are a great alternative to ED medications like Viagra or Cialis and are also a great tool when healing from prostate surgery or radiation and are often prescribed by urologists to help restore blood flow and recover natural erectile function. 

Hollow strap-ons can help assist during partnered sex when dealing with lowered libido or erectile dysfunction as well. Simply place your penis in the hollow dildo (it doesn't matter if it is erect or flaccid), add lubricant, and you're ready to go! Some models even offer vibration, adding another layer of pleasure for your partner. 

If you're unable to use regular handheld strokers due to arthritis, mobility issues, or are experiencing erectile dysfunction, there are still options out there to make solo play pleasurable and fun. Automatic masturbators like PDX's Fap-O-Matic do most of the work for you, so you can focus on your pleasure. If you can't always achieve an erection, toys like Hot Octopuss' Pulse Duo can be used even while flaccid or semi-erect. There's also a remote, making it easy to change settings. 

The Bottom Line:

At the end of the day, intimacy and pleasure do not have an expiration date! We encourage you to embrace your sexual wellbeing as you age and stay connected with your body. Not only does it feel good, it can help boost confidence, boost your immunity, help you sleep, and enhance the overall quality of your life! Whether you are navigating changes in mobility, managing chronic pain, or simply looking to revitalize your intimate moments, the right tools can make all the difference. Don't be afraid to prioritize your comfort, experiment with new options, and most importantly, have fun exploring what feels best for you.