**Blowjob in this post refers to oral stimulation of the penis. However, blowjobs can and are encouraged to be performed on what & whoever one consents to give a BJ to!**

Steak and BJ day was originally meant as a “return-the-favour” celebration for men on March 14th - exactly one month after Valentine’s Day. Although this is silly, of course, as not only male-identified people spoil their partners on Valentine’s day, and lots of people (regardless of gender identity) don’t even like V-Day at all! However, out of this novelty came some good as Steak & BJ Day proudly promotes and donates to breast cancer research.

So now that you know the REAL reason behind why you should participate, here’s how to make Steak & BJ Day 2020 one for the books.

The Basics

Firstly, to give the perfect blow job, you have to know the in and out of a penis (pun intended) and which sweet spots you will definitely want to hit! Things like anatomy and oral stimulation basics can ensure the experience is the most fun for both of you.

Last Steak & BJ Day, we set out the basics of Blowjobs 101 to try to encourage readers to participate, and maybe even try something new! Check out the penis anatomy basics, and some beginner tips and tricks for BJ’s here!

Blowjob Bliss

For those ready to kick their blowjob game up a notch, check out these different accessories that can take any blowjob to the next level. Whether it’s for giving or receiving, these products can make the blowjob experience more fun and pleasurable for both of you.

1. Flavoured Lubricant

Flavoured lubricants are actually designed specifically for oral sex! They provide all of the already great benefits of lube (read more about that here) but feature a delicious taste. Trust us, some are SO yummy, you’ll forget it’s lube!

2. BJ Blast

BJ Blast is a product that mimics the “pop rocks” sensation, the candy that many of us enjoyed as kids. They work the exact same way, with just a few key differences (size and sharpness of the candy) that make them genitally safe and more pleasurable on the sensitive bits.

3. A Tongue/Finger Vibe

A tongue or a finger vibrator can be used to stimulate in addition to the mouth, or as a fun activity for before/after. Don’t forget about the other, less-obvious erogenous zones too, like the nipples, perineum, inner thighs, scrotum, etc.!

4. A Mini or Open/Ended Stroker

Similar to mini vibes, a mini stroker or one with an open end/side can be used to stimulate the penis in addition to the mouth, or as a separate (more handjob-like) activity. Smaller strokers or one with an open end/side are more partner-friendly to encourage its use on another person, rather than for strictly solo purposes.

5. Throat Relaxing/Coating

There are several different products on the market that can actually help with gag reflexes and make the experience more comfortable! A throat relaxing spray slightly numbs the back of the tongue and throat, whereas a thicker coating cream can allow the user to salivate more, making the mouth wetter.

Regardless of how you like your steak or your blowjobs, it’s hard to dispute the winning combination that can put a fun and yummy twist on date night.