"Fetish" vs "Kink"

“Fetish” and “kink” are two words often used interchangeably when actually they mean something different! While they are similar in referring to sexual activities that are “out of the norm”, something only becomes a fetish when it becomes necessary for someone’s sexual gratification. This could mean they need it to feel aroused, for pleasure, or even to reach orgasm.

To better understand the difference, think of it this way; all fetishes are a kink but not all kinks are a fetish!

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Have Fun With Your Fetish!

There are many different types of fetishes, with some being more common than others. If you find yourself with a fetish, here are some toys that can go along with the theme and enhance the fun!

Feet

Icon Brands Keisha Grey's Foot Fetish Masturbator

Moulded directly from adult star Keisha Grey’s size 6 feet, enjoy them pressed together for a lifelike, foot-fucking sensation. With two separate channels to experience, go in between her arches and come out the other side, or go from heel to toe for a TOE-tally different experience!

Coquette D1792 Stirrup Stockings Black & Coquette 1777 Stockings Black/Red OS

Alternatively, you can dress up any existing pair of feet with a pair of stockings or pantyhose!

Panties

Coquette D9348 Chained Panty Black

Don’t forget to explore the wide variety of types of panties!

Hair

Rubies Costume Company Glamour Wig Black

Check out Stag Shop’s variety of wigs!

Latex

Coquette D9382 Crotchless Teddy Black OS

Look for lingerie styles that are actually made from latex! Other “wetlook” lingerie styles, such as the Darque line by Coquette, while not necessarily made of latex, often replicate the look with its clingy & shiny designs.

Ouch by Shots Toys Body Bondage Tape Black

Alternatively, bondage tape is a product that also looks like latex that can be used to literally wrap up the body or specific body parts as it clings and sticks to itself!

Shoes

Pleaser USA Rainbow 7" Platform Heel with Ankle Strap

Heels, boots, platforms, oh my! Check out Stag Shop’s selection of shoes!

Leather

Prowler Premium Leather Cross Chest Harness & Shots Toys Pain Metal Ball Handle Leather Saddle Paddle

Between body harnesses, impact tools, bondage gear and more, you can experience all that leather has to offer.

Voyeurism & Exhibitionism

Lovense Hush Bluetooth Vibrating Butt Plug Black

Voyeurism refers to watching others have sex while exhibitionism involves engaging in sexual activity to be “caught” or seen by others. Since incorporating others is one of the key components of each, look for app-controlled toys that can consensually connect you from anywhere in the world!

Add in the visual element by using your camera (or have them use theirs) while using the toy to further indulge the fetish of watching or being watched!

Pain

Ouch! by Shots Toys Bondage Mittens Padded With Metal Teeth Black

In its many various forms, pain can be consensually inflicted in a number of ways and some may have a preference. Impact tools like paddles and crops can wield different levels of pain, all depending on how they are used!