Pleasure is personal, and masturbation is a normal, healthy part of life for many people. It helps us understand what feels good, how we like to be touched, and what kind of stimulation gets us going. With adult toys more accessible than ever, it’s no surprise that in a recent survey, 74.6% of women reported experimenting with different sensations to enhance their solo sessions.
That’s where the suction cup dildo really shines. This hands-free hero is a favourite for a reason. Whether it’s a vibrating suction cup dildo or a more classic style, these toys can open the door to a whole new level of control and creativity.
At Stag Shop, we carry a range of suction toys for all kinds of bodies and preferences, and we’re here to help you figure out how to use a suction cup dildo comfortably, safely, and confidently.
What Exactly is a Suction Cup Dildo?
They are exactly what they sound like! Suction cup dildos are a silicon dildo with a suction cup fixed to the base of it to allow it to stick to flat, smooth surfaces like hardwood floors or a smooth surfaced headboard. This stability allows for hand availability while riding!
They come in many realistic textures, bright colours, unique shapes, and even come with vibration or thrusting features for a little extra oomph! Our Suction Cup Dildos collection has something to suit every taste and curiosity.
Stick the Landing: Finding the Right Surface
Not every spot in your house is ready for a dildo-mounted adventure. A flat vertical surface like a shower wall or a horizontal surface like a clean tile floor gives you the grip and angle to enjoy riding without surprise detachment. If you try to use a suction dildo on fabric, uneven walls, or rough wooden planks, you might spend more time reattaching it than actually playing. Stick to what holds tight.
Explore different rooms and positions, from kneeling in front of a low mirror to taking it for a test run in the bathroom. Just make sure whatever surface you choose can support the suction cup base without slipping.
How to Make It Stick (and Stay Put)
Getting the suction cup to stay put often takes a bit of practice. You’ll want to make sure both the dildo base and the mounting surface are clean and dry. Sometimes, a quick wipe-down with warm water and a clean towel is all it takes.
For extra hold, press the suction cup firmly against the surface, leaning forward slightly to distribute your weight. You might even want to twist the base slightly as you press down to create a more secure seal. If it’s still slipping, try adding a drop of water to the base—it can help form a stronger suction.
Most dildos with a good suction cup base will stick well, but if yours is still popping off, it could be putting awkward pressure on the base. Re-angle the toy or switch to a better surface until it holds steady.
Is It Just a Solo Act?
Definitely not. While many love suction cup dildo play for the solo, hands free possibilities, this suction cup sex toy is also a hit during partnered play.
You can explore suction cup dildo positions together or treat it like a third person in bed. Try placing it on a vertical surface for additional clitoral stimulation during oral, or use it in a doggy style position while experimenting with different positions. Suction cup dildo positions can add depth to your connection and bring out new sensations during vaginal penetration or anal play. Think of it as a versatile toy that can step in during foreplay, assist in fantasy scenarios, or spice up positions that need an extra angle.
It's not quite a real threesome, but it might feel surprisingly close. Communication is key. A little curiosity and conversation can turn a suction cup toy into a versatile toy that makes your partnered play feel amazing. Suction cup dildo play can take on a life of its own when shared.
The Harness Question
Some people love to use a suction cup dildo in a harness for more dynamic movement. The trick is knowing which ones work. The dildo stick needs a flared, flat base and a tapered head to fit properly into the harness ring and stay put during play. If your toy has coronal ridges pointing out or an extreme upward curve, it might feel a bit awkward or cause discomfort. Before you strap in, test the fit by inserting it into the harness and checking for stability.
If the suction cup is too bulky or soft, it might not hold its shape under pressure. A cup dildo with a sturdy build makes all the difference when switching from a mounted experience to one that’s on the move. Check the product description to see if your new friend is harness-compatible and always choose what makes you feel in control.
Keeping It Clean
It’s tempting to jump straight into the action and skip the cleanup chat, but a clean toy is a happy toy. After every use, especially after vaginal use or anal play, wash your suction dildo properly
Most silicone toys can be cleaned with warm water and a gentle toy cleaner. If you’re not sure, check the packaging or product page for cleaning instructions. Our cleaning guide covers everything to make it easier for you to maintain your toys.
Just don’t forget to wash the suction cup base too—it’s touched plenty of surfaces and deserves just as much attention. Store your suction cup dildo correctly, and it’ll be ready for your next wild ride.
Suction, Stick, and Ride with Stag Shop
Exploring with a suction cup dildo is all about finding what works for you. Whether you’re squatting directly over it, leaning forward for the perfect angle, or using it to spice up doggy style, this toy is about freedom and exploration.
Stag Shop has supported sexual wellness and fun since 1972, evolving from a cheeky little shop in Waterloo to a trusted source for adult toys and sex-positive education across Canada. Our shelves are packed with options, from vibrators, to clitoral suction and female pumps and suction toys, and our team is always here to help you find your next great fit.
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