The Five Love Languages

Valentine’s Day is all about celebrating love—but not everyone feels loved in the same way. Dr. Gary Chapman's five love languages help us understand how people give and receive affection: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. They can help you to better understand yourself and can even be applied to your sex life!

Whether you're planning a grand romantic gesture or a cozy night in, here are thoughtful gift ideas and activities from Stag Shop to match each love language.

1. Words of Affirmation

For people who thrive on verbal expressions of love, your heartfelt words can mean everything.

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Gift Ideas:

• A beautifully written love letter or a jar filled with mini notes about what you love about them.
  
• Naughty coupons with playful promises.
  
• A game that encourages flirty conversation, like Chocolate Tease (pictured above) - a game where you get to write all over your partner’s body with edible chocolate paint! 😍

2. Acts of Service

For this love language, thoughtful gestures show you care more than words can.

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Gift Ideas:

• Treat them to a longer-than-usual oral sex session.👅
  
• Preparing their favorite meal or breakfast in bed.
  
• Surprise them by setting up a luxurious bath with bath bombs, rose petals, and candles.

3. Receiving Gifts

It's not about materialism—it's the thought behind the gift that counts.

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Gift Ideas:

• A curated gift basket with their favorite treats, toys, scents/flavours, and self-care items.
  
• Jewelry with a hidden, personal message or even one that vibrates!😉
  
• A surprise delivery of a couples' toy like a remote-controlled vibrator to heat things up later.

4. Quality Time

For those who value quality time, your presence is the best present.

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Gift Ideas:

• A romantic board or card game designed for couples to spark connection - these are some of our faves!
  
• A cozy night in with a "no phones" rule, focusing just on each other.
  
• Booking a staycation or creating a hotel-like experience at home with new lingerie and any fancy food or drink of choice!🥂

5. Physical Touch

For people who crave physical closeness, touch is the ultimate expression of love.

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Gift Ideas:

• Sensual massage kits with oils, feathers, and massage candles - maybe even treat them to a naked Nuru massage!
  
• A luxurious robe or lingerie that feels soft and inviting.
  
• A new toy for shared pleasure, like a couples vibrator or massage wand.