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The Magic of Massage Wands

Massage wands are vibrators known for their power, here’s how to get the most magical use out of yours!
October 18, 2022

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Massage wands are a type of vibrator that feature a more bulbous, rounded head and often deliver more powerful vibrations compared to other types of vibes. If you wanted to learn more about different massage wands and all of the options available, check out our shopping guide!

The Magical Hold

Le Wand Rechargeable Vibrating Massager Grey

One of the best and most unique things about wands are their long handles! Putting all of the power directly in your hands, their often rumbly vibrations and larger heads are designed to cover more surface area of the body.

Feel the Power✨

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Since they really do provide such strong vibration, some folks may find wands a bit too intense, but here are some ways to deal with all of that power!

1. Warm up your body first
Starting right at your most sensitive spots may not be the best idea with a wand, instead start on other parts of your body (like the breasts/chest or the inner thighs) to get the rest of your body fully aroused first.

2. Use it over your underwear
Try using your wand through underwear (or even some other added layers) to lessen the powerful sensations and to add a buffer between the vibration and your skin.

3. Take breaks!
That doesn’t mean you have to stop using it altogether, but take breaks from your clitoris and use your wand on other erogenous zones such as the nipples or perineum.

4. Keep it moving
Instead of just leaving it in the same hot spot, keep your wand moving around to avoid desensitization - don’t worry this is only a temporary thing that you can read more about in our myths about vibrators blog!

WAND-erful Tips!

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1. BDSM power play
Use a wand on a partner being restrained and edge them towards orgasm, deny them an orgasm, or force one upon them (after being consented to of course)!

2. Attachments

Svakom Emma Neo Warming Wand Vibrator & Attachment

Add to your wand…literally with an attachment! Slipped over the head of the wand, attachments extend the vibrations to be delivered in different ways with pieces that are textured or flicker back and forth. They also can bring the good vibes to different parts of the body such as inside of the vagina or around the penis. Just be sure to pay attention to wand attachment brands and sizes as some are designed to only work with their brand of products.

3. DIY vibrating toys
Taking advantage of their powerful ways once again, try putting the head of a wand at the base of an inserted plug or dildo to transfer the good vibes and instantly turn a non-vibrating toy into one that does!

4. Hands-free

Liberator Axis Magic Wand Toy Mount Velvish Merlot

Use your wand in a hands-free fashion with certain products like this Liberator (pictured above) or you can DIY it with some pillows or couch cushions!

Taking Care of Your Wand💦

Wicked Sensual Care Foam N' Fresh Toy Cleaner 8oz & Adam & Eve Magic Massager Deluxe

If your wand is waterproof, you can clean it just like you would your other toys! However, if it isn’t (aka ANY that use an attached cord that you have to plug in), you have to be more careful with the water. Use a soft cloth and some toy cleaner to gently wash down the head of the toy (the part that comes into contact with the body) and then let it air dry.


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