Whether youβre in for an extended make out sesh or you like to use kissing as a lead up to other activities like oral, penetration/strap-on play or anal, here are 5 tips for kissing with tongue!π
1. Start slow
You donβt have to start out with your tongue right away! In fact, you may find it to be more anticipating if you start slower (focusing on the kissing itself) and then build up to more heavy tongue use as you go.
2. Pay attention to your breathing
Itβs totally normal to start breathing heavier when you get turned on but remember to slow down every once in a while and try to stay relaxed, tuning into your partnerβs breath as well!
3. Gently add tongue
Once you feel ready, letβs add some tongue!
Start with little slips into your partnerβs mouth here and there, maybe a casual swirl around their tongue if it meets you in the middle. The most important thing is to communicate (either verbally or with some obvious body talk) what youβre into and if something just isnβt doing it for you!
Pro Tip: While people do enjoy different things, itβs pretty universal that a poking/prodding tongue as well as a βdeadβ tongue arenβt all that fun for anyone.
4. Experiment & play together
Once you fall into a bit of a kissing rhythm and/or start to understand each other's preferences, try experimenting with new tongue techniques such asβ¦
- Keeping your tongue in their mouth for longer or short periods of time
- Moving your tongue in different ways or around new parts of your partnerβs mouth/throat (if consented to of course)
- Using different patterns or parts of your tongue
5. Keep it fresh
As with any type of kissing, a fresh mouth can help you to feel more confident; so brush, floss, gargle, pop some gum, and whatever else you like to do for your oral (pun intended) hygiene!
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