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Beginner BDSM Toys

Are you new to the BDSM scene? Not sure what to play with first? Here are some great beginner BDSM toys to get you started!
Emily Zawadzki
July 8, 2020

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Are you new to the BDSM scene? Not sure what to play with first? Here are some great beginner BDSM toys to get you started!

If you’re unsure about what to do with any of the following items, be sure to check out our previous blog post here for five popular (and kinky!) ways to play!

1. Blindfold

NS Novelties Lust Blindfold

A fun way for beginners to play is with a blindfold! Not being able to see what a lover is doing, what’s coming next, etc. can all add to the heightened experience. Check out our blog on kissing games for some specific ways you can play with a blindfold!

Pro Tip: Many of them are super comfortable and also make great eye masks for sleeping!

Shop all blindfolds here!

2. Flogger

Sex & Mischief Mini Flogger

Floggers (also known as flogs, or sometimes labelled as a “whip”) feature multiple strands, or “tails” that simultaneously make impact with the skin. The longer the tails and the harder the material, the more pain the flog will inherently cause.

Floggers are great for beginners though as they can be used for both soft and hard play - it all depends on how you use it! Lightly run it over a lover’s body for a teasing effect, or use more force as you hit the skin to create a stinging sensation.

Find all floggers here!

3. Cuffs

Sex & Mischief Beginner's Handcuffs

If you’re interested in restraint play, try starting with something a little less intimidating - like a pair of cuffs! Designed for both wrists and ankles, with cuffs you can explore power dynamics, different positions, and even play with orgasm control & edging!

There are a wide variety of different types of cuffs; some attach to furniture like a bed, and others even go over a closed door frame to keep the restrained person standing up.

Shop all cuffs here!

4. Nipple Suckers

Cal Exotics Nipple Play Advanced Nipple Suckers

Mimicking the suction of a mouth, nipple suckers create a seal around the nipple and use air pressure to draw blood to it. This engorges it and makes the nipple even more sensitive to any kind of stimulation afterwards!

Shop all nipple suckers here!

 5. Ball Gag w/ Holes

NS Novelties Sinful Ball Gag

Sometimes referred to as a “breathable” ball gag - a gag with holes in it does exactly that; helps the wearer to breathe easier and more comfortably. Alternatively, a bit gag fits smaller in the mouth and you can even bite down on it! For more information on different types of gag restraints, check out our previous blog post here!

Shop all ball gags here!

Bonus: A Kit!

Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Lover's Fantasy Kit

To try multiple BDSM toys at once, go for a kit! Different kits will feature different toys (some are even themed!) so be sure to really pay attention to which products are in each kit before you buy.

Shop all BDSM kits here!

 

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