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Incorporating Toys Into Partnered Sex

So, you want to try a sex toy together. Good thing Stag Shop is here to help you figure out how to start incorporating toys into your partnered sex!
February 14, 2023

Adding toys into your sex life can be overwhelming for some folks, especially when you want a partner to be involved! Whether you’re a sex toy newbie or a toy aficionado, check out our previous blog post for some helpful tips (like how to bring up the sex toy talk) when it comes to toys & partners.

Where to Start

Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Unisex Hollow Strap-On Beige

If you were eager to add in some toys together, a good place to start is to figure out WHAT types of play you already engage in and/or want to explore…and go for toys that can enhance these things!

What to Use

In addition to other types of couples toys, here are some specific types of toys that you can get started playing with ASAP!

Screaming O Charged Fing O Rechargeable Finger Vibrator Pink

You can take turns using external vibes (like wands, finger vibes, bullets & air pulse toys) on each other’s hot spots or all over their body!

We-Vibe Chorus Adjustable Couples Vibrator Cosmic Blue

Couples vibrators - like vibrating cock rings or the We-Vibe Chorus (pictured above) - are toys that were designed to stimulate both of you at the same time!

Cal Exotics Silicone Remote Vibrating Nipple Clamps Black

You can use remote control toys (available in a variety of different toy designs!) to tease each other with and take control over the other person’s pleasure!

Some popular remote control toys to play with are:

Cal Exotics Booty Call X-10 Booty Beads Black

Speaking of butt stuff…using anal toys (which both of you can enjoy since everyone has a booty!) during your other favourite activities like oral, fingering, or vaginal penetration can be a spicy way to switch up your sex!

Positions to Try

Here are some fun positions to try with your newly added pleasure tools!

riding cowgirl gif

Try the cowgirl position for full access to your hands, your toy, and total control over the ride!

Magic wand collection

Try it doggy style with a wand so that the long handle can help you to reach more comfortably.

want to be little spoon snl gif

Try the spooning position in which the big spoon can take over control of the little spoon’s toy!


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