Adding toys into your sex life can be overwhelming for some folks, especially when you want a partner to be involved! Whether you’re a sex toy newbie or a toy aficionado, check out our previous blog post for some helpful tips (like how to bring up the sex toy talk) when it comes to toys & partners.
Where to Start
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If you were eager to add in some toys together, a good place to start is to figure out WHAT types of play you already engage in and/or want to explore…and go for toys that can enhance these things!
- For oral play - try flavoured lubes or maybe even a tongue vibe
- You can use strap-on play items for different types of penetration play
- BDSM toys for a variety of kinky scenes!
- If you’re not physically together, you can play with long-distance toys
- Mutually masturbate together with each of your respective go-to (solo) toys
What to Use
In addition to other types of couples toys, here are some specific types of toys that you can get started playing with ASAP!
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You can take turns using external vibes (like wands, finger vibes, bullets & air pulse toys) on each other’s hot spots or all over their body!
We-Vibe Chorus Adjustable Couples Vibrator Cosmic Blue
Couples vibrators - like vibrating cock rings or the We-Vibe Chorus (pictured above) - are toys that were designed to stimulate both of you at the same time!
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You can use remote control toys (available in a variety of different toy designs!) to tease each other with and take control over the other person’s pleasure!
Some popular remote control toys to play with are:
- Vibrating underwear
- Toys that can connect to their brand’s app
- Remote controlled butt plugs & anal toys
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Speaking of butt stuff…using anal toys (which both of you can enjoy since everyone has a booty!) during your other favourite activities like oral, fingering, or vaginal penetration can be a spicy way to switch up your sex!
Positions to Try
Here are some fun positions to try with your newly added pleasure tools!
Try the cowgirl position for full access to your hands, your toy, and total control over the ride!
Try it doggy style with a wand so that the long handle can help you to reach more comfortably.
Try the spooning position in which the big spoon can take over control of the little spoon’s toy!
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