It’s Totally Okay to Steal a Moment for Yourself!
Whether you’re at work, on a hike, in a parked car, or anywhere else, no one’s going to shame you for wanting a little private “me time.”
As long as you can find a safe, discreet spot, go for it. Just keep these important rules in mind:
- Consent is everything. No one wants an unexpected visual surprise. Keep it hidden.
- Kids are around? Hard no. Avoid anywhere children might be present.
- Legal risks are real. Public indecency laws vary by location getting caught can lead to an awkward (and expensive) situation you definitely want to avoid.
Get Out!
First things first!
Before you venture outdoors, be sure to check out the full outdoor sex guide with some helpful hints for taking ANY kind of sexy play out into the open.
Public Play
That being said, here are some of the best places to sneak away for some sexy solo time.
At weddings:
The romantic vibes of a wedding can often inspire a sense of passion and…arousal! 😏 If you’re feeling in the mood, you should be able to find a bathroom, empty parking lot, or maybe even a secluded area of the venue to be alone.
In your parked car:
Parked is the key word here as playing while a car is moving is a big no-no and is technically distracted driving! A parked car, however, is safe and can provide privacy, depending on where you park it.
Music festivals:
These euphoric spaces are sure to get your blood pumping - especially with all of that sexual energy! If you’re staying in a tent, that would probably be your best option for some solo time; either day or night.
Airport bathrooms:
Amidst the hustle and bustle of travel, airports - specifically airport bathrooms - offer a thrilling chance for a discreet rendezvous on-the-go, while the anticipation of your departure or arrival adds to the excitement!
Pro Tip: Single-stall & family bathrooms are the better bathroom since they offer more privacy!
Bathroom at work:
If you work a full-time job somewhere, you’re spending a lot of time there so it makes sense you might get a little horny every now and then.🤷♀️ Depending on your work place, you might have others around - or you might not. Either way though, it’s best to avoid anywhere you could get caught by a coworker…or even worse your boss! So once again, a private, single-stall bathroom (or something like a lockable supply closet) is the way to go!
At the beach:
I’m sure some sexy time in and/or around the water has crossed your mind at least once or twice.💦 But water sex isn’t *quite* as simple and spontaneous as movies and TV shows portray it to be. There are some important things to keep in mind when playing in any kind of water and when you’re on a public beach, you also have to think about people and SAND - so be sure to bring extra towels and blankets!
On a hike/secluded trail:
Venture into the sexy serenity of nature! Always opt for the path less travelled, and if you were thinking of making one of your hikes a little dirtier than usual, here are some recommended hiking dos and don’ts.
Take the Toys
Pleasure Company Necklace Vibe
If you’re on the hunt for that perfect on-the-go companion, opt for toys that are smaller in size, don't make too much noise, and are easily portable whether it be in a pocket, handbag, suitcase. Even a necklace 😉
So the next time you're feelin’ a little frisky when you’re out & about, be sure you have a buzzing friend to help you out!
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