Oral sex involves using your mouth for pleasure and it can be performed on a penis, vulva, anus, etc. In addition to some of the basics of anatomy, try one of these universal oral sex tips for anyBODY!

1. Grind on

If receiving, you can grind your body against their head to provide you with more control over things like the pressure, speed, etc.

2. Add Lube

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Not only can the addition of lubricant provide more sensation for the receiver, but if you use a flavoured lube (specifically designed for oral sex), it adds a different taste for the giver too!

There are some pretty delicious flavours out there including coffee, blueberry muffin, and fresh strawberries.

3. Add a Toy

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We all want to provide our partners with the most pleasure we can, right? But we’re only human and it’s okay if you get tired or there are things that your tongue simply can’t do.

So try adding a toy into the mix too - whatever you enjoy! Not sure what to try first? There are finger vibrators, tongue vibrators, dildos, and more!

4. Be enthusiastic 

Oral sex is an incredibly intimate act and some people on the receiving end can be a little self-conscious about it. If you are the giver and you’re having a good time (which you probably are!), don’t be afraid to show it! Smile at them, moan, dirty talk (if you’re into that), and generally just act like you’re happy to be going down south.

5. Get creative 

The basic missionary position is a common one for oral sex, but if you can, try to be more creative! Get on all fours, try one person standing up, and of course, there’s always the 69.

6. Take a seat

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Speaking of different positions, face sitting is another creative way to engage in oral sex. You can sit on a face for more intimacy & receiver control OR on the edge of a bed/chair for different and sometimes easier access for a giver on their knees.

Pro Tip: Try a sex bench (like the one pictured above) with a hole in the seat…designed for…exactly what you’re probably thinking!