For those with a vulva, you probably already know that stimulation of the clitoris simply feels good. There are a variety of ways to please this hot spot including hands, toys, and more! But today, we’re getting a little more creative with ways you can stimulate the clitoris.
The Clitoris
Did you know that the clitoris is the ONLY part of the human body that’s sole purpose is pleasure - it’s simply there to be touched and played with babes. While most people tend to only think of the little “button” we see on the vulva as the clitoris (that’s the glans clitoris btw), there’s actually a lot more to it than that!
The full clitoris is a wishbone shape that can be anywhere from 3.5-5 inches long, with most of it resting inside of the body. The external part specifically has nearly 8000 nerve endings with an estimated 150000 in the entire pelvic region!
Knowing all of this, it’s pretty understandable that around 80% of vulva havers need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm.
Let’s get creative!
Now for the fun part! Yes, of course there are always your hands and a plethora of sex toys that you can use to tease and please the clit, but today, we’re getting a little more creative with our clit stimulation.
1. A bike ride
Many folks find that the way the bike seat hits the vulva/clit while riding plus the added bouncing around can feel good. Whether you want to use an actual bike outside, or a gym bike like a Peloton, ride on!
2. Hump, hump and away
Liberator Jaz Original Wedge Position Aid
Use a pillow, edge of a couch, etc. to sit/lean on and hump away. By situating yourself on top of something else, you’re more in control of the pressure, speed, etc.
Pro Tip: Try looking for a piece of sex furniture that already has a spot for your toy (like the Liberator pictured above) or DIY one with a strap-on harness around a pillow with your favourite riding piece.
3. Do your kegels
Some people find that simply doing your kegels (squeezing & releasing the PC muscles) can also cause indirect stimulation to the clitoris, because you’re basically stroking the clitoris’ internal shaft!
4. Make it wet
There’s a reason the showerhead has become a popular masturbation innuendo in movies & TV, because it works! Both the showerhead and a running faucet can feel particularly good when focused on the clitoris.
You can choose the perfect temperature for you, play with the different jet settings on the showerhead, and clean as you go!
Pro Tip: Try a showerhead on the butthole too, you’re welcome 😉
5. Get your grind on
Not just for furniture & pillows, you can grind on your partner too! Grinding can be done in a variety of positions, simply straddle any part of their body and go wild on your own personal playground of body-ody-ody.
Some body parts great for grinding are: their butt, their leg, their head/face (if consented to, turning it into some oral play), their vulva/clit (aka tribbing or scissoring between two vulva havers), and more!
Do you have another creative way to stimulate the clit that we didn’t mention?! Share it in the comments below!
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