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Self-Love Series: Best Masturbation Toys For Her

If you’ve got a vulva and are looking for some new toys to play with this Masturbation Month, consider these.
Emily Zawadzki
May 22, 2020

It wouldn’t be a Self-Love Series with Stag Shop if we didn’t talk about sex toys, right!? If you’ve got a vulva and are looking for some new toys to play with this Masturbation Month, consider these.

"Women's Toys"

Samira Wiley air quotes gif

Toys that are typically marketed as “women’s toys” really are just referring to toys that were designed to stimulate the erogenous zones of the female body like the vulva and the vagina. However, we recognize that not everyone who has these parts identifies as a female and vice versa.

Best Masturbation Toys

Massage Wands:

Le Wand Rechargeable Vibrating Massager Pearl White

Massage wands are one of the most popular toys for people with vulvas to use during masturbation. Known for their super powerful, rumbly vibrations and bigger shaped heads, wands tend to cover more surface area of the vulva (or wherever you want to put it!) compared to a bullet vibrator. Many also feature flexible necks so you can hit all of the right spots - no matter your angle.

Shop all massage wands here!

Rabbit/Dual Vibes:

Satisfyer Magic Bunny Vibrator

Rabbit, or dual vibrators are ones that stimulate externally and internally at the same time! There are a variety of different shapes and designs that can provide different sensations such as rabbit ears, flickering clitoral pieces, and rotating shafts. For a more in-depth look at the rockin’ world of rabbit vibes, check out our previous blog post here.

Shop all rabbits here!


NS Novelties Colours - 5" Pleasures Thick Dildo Assorted Colours

For arousing internal sensations, dildos (or more traditional-looking vibrators) are a classic go-to penetration toy for many vulva havers (although they can be used anally as well by any body!). To represent our diverse population as well as personal preferences, dildos can be found in a variety of shapes, sizes, materials, skin tones, and realistic detailing.

Some offer vibration for even more stimulation and many feature a suction-cup base for hands-free fun all on your own!

Shop all dildos here!

Clitoral Suction/Air Pulse Toys:

Womanizer Classic Clitoral Stimulator Purple

If you have a clitoris and haven’t yet experienced the sensations that a clitoral suction toy can provide, Masturbation Month is the perfect time to do so! Brands like Womanizer and Satisfyer feature collections of toys that use airwave pressure technology to create a seal around the clitoris and then “suck” it.

Many are also waterproof, and we recommend you definitely take it into the bath or shower with you to explore these sensations underwater too! Some also combine the suction technology with vibration or an internal shaft - taking your pleasure to new levels.

Shop all clitoral suction toys here!

Butt Plugs:

b-Vibe Novice Vibrating Butt Plug Fuchsia

Whether you combine a butt plug with another type of toy like a vibrator or a dildo or use it all on its own, butt plugs provide a hands-free feeling of stretching, pressure, and/or fullness. They can also be a great tool to explore anal play and what that feels like on your own before adding someone else into the mix.

Shop all butt plugs here!