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Silent Night, Silent Sex Toys!

Silent night, silent sex toys! Here’s everything you need to know about seeking out a shhhh - silent sex toy!
Emily Zawadzki
December 22, 2022

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Why Something Silent?

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A quiet sex toy is exactly what it sounds like - a toy that makes little, if any, sound! Due to living arrangements, travel, or kids, many folks are specifically looking for discreet toys that can help them to seek out pleasure…privately!

How to Choose:

If you’re on the hunt for a quiet sex toy, here are some things to look for!


Now, this may seem a little obvious…but if a toy doesn’t have a motor, it won’t make any sound! Non-vibrating toys can come in the form of dildos, cock rings, butt plugs, and more!


If you do want a motorized toy though, opt for one that is rechargeable rather than one that takes batteries. Sometimes the batteries sitting in their plastic holder can rattle around and cause noise while in use.

Public play

You don’t have to engage in public play if that’s not your thing, however toys that are designed for public use - like app-controlled toys or vibrating underwear, are generally designed to be quieter and more discreet.


The material of your toy can play a part in how much noise it makes. Toys that are made of softer materials like silicone tend to place the motor deeper inside of the toy in which the soft material then almost acts like a sound barrier against the sound of the motor.

Toys that are made of harder materials though - like ABS plastic - don’t have that and the sound of the motor tends to travel throughout the toy.

A seal of silence

Motorized sex toys toys that work by creating a seal around the area it’s stimulating such as air pulse stimulators or penis & pussy pumps can provide more silent stimulation compared to other motorized toys. Once the toy has made contact with your body, they become practically silent!

Tips for Silencing Toys:

Maybe you aren’t in a place to splurge on a new toy right now or you simply have an old fan favourite that actually is on the louder side…here are some of our tips on how you can silence some of your LOUDER sex toys!

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Shots Toys "Insert Me" Feel Good Vibe

If your toy is designed to go inside of the body - like internal vibrators, vibrating dildos, and plugs - insert it before you turn it on! Once it’s inside, the body helps to muffle any sound coming from the toy.

Pro Tip: You might find this even easier to do with a toy that has a wireless remote control!

Location, location, location!

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Especially if you’re in a shared living situation, try to think about where you’re going to use your sex toy. It’s ideal to bring it out when you know others can’t hear you such as in the shower or while you are home alone!

Muffling motors

Liberator Fascinator Throw Blanket

Use any blankets and pillows to place over the toy while you’re using it as an added sound barrier.


Womanizer OG Pleasure Air G-Spot Vibrator Dark Grey

Some brands and toys have a feature that can make the toy quieter such as Womanizer’s Smart Silence technology that automatically decreases its power and therefore its sound when it is removed from and not making contact with the body!